Family Time Gets Weird

Where is it in your life where your family seem like they are form a different planet. Well thats about now for me. I am 24 years old and everything seems backwards. Who is the number one, your family right, wrong, how many times do theytell you watch out for yourself, this is a tough worl etc etc. They are just like you and have no one to watch out for them, they try to make the best of one life instead of using the Gestalt method - the sum is greater than all its parts.